How To Attract Girls
Guys ask me all the time what my thoughts are on how to attract girls. They ask if certain girls need to be treated differently. Some of my friends like Asian women, some like tall leggy blonds, and some just love petite brunettes.
The answer is always the same. No. On a superficial level women may appear different, but fundamentally they are all similar deep down.
This means that behaviours and traits that attract one woman, will work on most, if not all, other women. Whether she is a petite Mexican girl, tall athletic Swedish blond girl or a curvy black girl.
Some of my friends started out just wanting to hook up with hot girls. They just wanted to crank the numbers and that's fine, at the time.
But soon they realised that there's more to life than just sleeping with woman after woman. They wanted something deeper.
They wanted to feel a deeper connection with a woman. They wanted a special girl that would relate to them, share their values, their goals and their aspirations.
And when one of my friends, John, eventually met a girl like this, he said to me:
"David, getting this girl has made me feel like I can really go after and get what I want, not just with women, but life in general too. I have a new level of confidence and self-esteem like I have never experienced before."
"My mates and family both think my new girlfriend is awesome, and keep asking me where I found such a beautiful yet down-to-earth girl. I feel so much more complete as a man now. It is awesome"
You too can find a girl like this. They are out there in droves.
I hereby give you permission to think yourself worthy enough to go after what you truly want in life.
You need to start believing you can do it.
That said, on with the most fundamental aspect of attracting women...
The Biggest Key To Attraction
Of all the aspects of social interactions, there is one overriding factor that is so deeply ingrained at the centre of attraction that I consider it to be the fundamental piece of the puzzle.
This keystone is the concept of VALUE.
What is value?
Value is social currency. If you have higher value than someone else, then you will be above them in the social hierarchy.
The leader of a pack of wolves is the one wolf who has the most social value.
The most popular guy at a party is the one who has the most value. Value comes first, being most popular follows.
So how do you get to be High Value?
There are several components, here are a few:
*Self Esteem - you need to feel worthy enough to be in a prominent social position.
*Leadership & Dominance - you need to be comfortable being a leader & being in charge.
*Bodylanguage - you need to be able to have confident and sexual bodylanguage.
*Resourceful - you go after and get what you want.
A high value guy considers himself deserving of high social status. He sees himself as a leader. He is not intimidated by others. He spreads himself out when he is sat down.
He knows how to touch women non sexually, and makes them feel comfortable and relaxed.
He knows what he wants. He is intimately familiar with his values and beliefs. He knows himself. He has the confidence and the ability to go after and obtain what he wants, and he demonstrates this often.
So start working on these aspects of yourself, and your social value will skyrocket. You will find women are more naturally attracted to you when you have high social value.
Decide to be high value, and act to become it. You can do it.
David Black
image credit: Christian E. Peterson